My Ex-girlfriend left me in 2014 because I was broke, 2021 she is seeking for employment in my company - Man seeks advice
A Nigerian man narrates how and why his girl friend broke up with i=him 2014 because he was broke, 2021 she is seeking for an employment in his company.


"So, this is meant to be long but I will summarize it because I am at fix right now. So the gist is my ex-girlfriend at UNIVERSITY, she was all I got then and I was all she got too well I suppose so because I was her first boyfriend then (na me dis-virgin her). "

"So, we dated for around 3years then, it was fun and sweet I won’t lie, she loved me to her soul. (you know how girls can be with their first love) gave me her all, maybe even loved me more than I did love her then because you know I was really focused more on making money because I had a really huge business idea then + I was in my finals."

"But in all honest I did love her so much too. So, everything shattered when her friends started whispering stuffs to her like… “this guy isn’t your class” stop limiting yourself” “you are too beautiful to be with just 1 guy” “if na me get your beauty ehn” you know stuffs like that."

"She started acting cold towards me so I just had to leave too after several plee to resolve things between us. Never saw he or even heard from her again. Well, the last time I heard about her from her older sister, I was told she’s one of the hottest chicks in Lekki then, travelling to Dubai at ease, that was in 2015."'

"Well, I was surprised because she came from a well-groomed family so I didn’t expect her to be influenced by her friends to that extent."

"Fast forward to 2021, I currently own a multimillion Naira company here in Lekki with a staff strength of 100+ with least earning pegged at N85k per annum. And guess who came for an interview this past week? Yeah, you guessed right. She was shocked to see me, But I pretended not to know her just for the Interview to go smoothly."

"She waited for me outside and when I was driving out, she knelt down to apologize to me, I felt embarrassed so we had to go to an eatery. While there, I learnt one of her friends was used for ritual by a yahoo boy, while the other is currently wombless due to multiple pills and abortion. She didn’t tell me hers but it was written all over her as she wasn’t at all looking beautiful, her skin tone had faded and she’s even looking somehow. In short, she wasn’t the girl I fell in love with then, the thing is my HRM says she’s more qualified from all the people we interviewed for that position, I don’t intend to have anything with her as I am already engaged to a queen far above her (we met even before I built this company) to be married in April."

"And I am a guy that doesn’t really want to work around familiar persons to avoid favoritism so I want to know should I hire her or just assist her with some money to get her life on track because honestly, she looks like life has passed through her and dealt with her back to her senses."

"No Jokes bro, the thing is if she gets hired her pay would be around N200k+ but I plan to give her 1.5 Million instead of the Job to get a life for herself because she tried for me then."

"What do you guys think? My Fiance thinks I should just help her get another job with my connections instead. But the koko be say those my connections are eventually gonna want to take advantage of her Las Las I know them."

"Please Help me, I am sorry for the Long write up. Please guys don’t insult me abeg."