Therefore, what some people might consider romantic or polite in your home country might not be well received in your new one.
Regardless of cultural backgrounds, of which there are many, South Africans are respectful of their elders and are brought up to have good manners. With good manners come romantic gestures, needless to say chivalry is still well and alive in South Africa.
One thing that makes people start a relationship (even when they aren’t in love) is the fear of being alone. Many boys and girls continue unhealthy relationships because they don’t want to be alone and they even ignore the faults in their partner because they fear to break up.
Whether you’re in South Africa or out of the country, that lady seems to be looking for a serious man. She’s eager to mingle and meet the person she’s been waiting for. If you ever love her, please be serious, as she says that she is tired of the players. For a long time now, they’ve been playing it, trying to calm down.